认同: to approve of, to endorse, to acknowledge, to recognize, to identify oneself with...
见到: to see...
丢人: to lose face...
利害: terrible, formidable, serious, devastating, tough, capable, sharp, severe, fierce...
不肯: not willing to...
境外: outside (a country's) borders...
慈祥: kindly, benevolent (often of older person)...
交谈: to discuss, to converse, chat, discussion...
常态: normal state...
形成: to form, to take shape...